Chapter 2--- Goodbye, desperation and frustration
Life gets easier when we only FOCUS on the positive things. Life gets hard when we keep whining about how unlucky we are. We can change the current circumstances by our thoughts.
Some of us become so clingy and needy and desperate after our breakup. The longer the time you separated with your love, The less faith you can have to believe that they will be back to you.
I have received pm from many of our members, some of them are already doing really a great job in being positive for most of their time, while some of the other members are still in that" Damn it. Where the hell is he/she? He/she is dating with others. I can't lose him. I am feeling so bad now." State.
For those who are being positive, please keep being positive as you are DEFINITELY on the right track. For those who are in that desperate and needy state, please read the followings :
I don't know much about you, I don't know what had happened between you and your love. I don't even know how determined you are when it comes to getting your love back. ( I'm sure you want to get him/her back, or else you won't be here and keep reading my posts, right?)
One thing: STOP CALLING YOUR LOVE AS AN "EX"
We already know that we have to use present tense when we write in out gratitude journal, you will write something like "I'm so grateful that my boyfriend/girlfriend is finally back in my arms", but wait, some people here who is seeking for help still call their love as an "ex". I think it would be better if you can stop calling them as your "ex".
No matter what is happening out there, even if he/she starts dating others already, don't be negative about that. It's your choice to believe in what you want. You can simply believe that " Oh well, no matter who he/she meets, they are just not as good as I am. I am the one for him/her, he/she just realize that I'm the one after dating those people"
Be confident about yourself, if you don't even believe that you still can attract them, how can you ever succeed?
There should be no more desperation and frustration
1) you know that negative feelings associated with frustration and desperation will only delay the manifestation
2) you will start to doubt LOA, as you attract more and more desperation and frustration into your life
3) you want them back right? So why don't you focus on the fact "they belongs to you"?
Tell yourself that YOUR LOVE BELONGS TO YOU, no one can ever wear take them away from you. Start building up the faith , your love will guide them home
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